Attention she looking…
Now, I’m here having a rather heavy breakfast for during the week….some of the leftover liver that was cooked Sunday…hey, it was in the fridge…and man easy to force. Topped it off with a half apple and a kiwi….a fruit that I have learned to appreciate in recent years….I sorta think of it as a ‘ristocratic cousin to naseberry! (I could be wrong though.)
Surfed the newspapers and it is an Observer story that got me.
Now, as a yute growing up, I can’t remember giving my parents any major heartache…I basically towed the line. Hell, I wasn’t any angel, but certain shyte was just not even considered in my home. The thought of Daddy’s facial expressions alone would jus mek you put any thought of wayward behaviour to rest. Yes people, as a yute I knew that one of my major responsibilities was to put me head inna me book dem, and mek sure seh no teacher need to see my parents on account of poor grades or bad behaviour at school. That rass jus was not tolerated.
I stumbled on this article and asked myself, what is wrong with this sixteen year old. Now, I am not yet a parent (tough shit that is). But, were I placed in such a situation with any future offspring, if you asked me now what I would do… testosterone, anger and so on would dictate that she get a good rahtid beating and hear a few claats.
But, when I think about it, her staging her own ‘kidnapping’ is simply in my opinion, attention seeking behaviour. Her family needs to sit down with her and find out what a gwaan. She already is going to feel a penalty from the legal system. Probably they need the assistance of a Psychologist who is sensitive to the needs of adolescents. They have to watch this young teen. I wouldn’t put it past her to attempt suicide as a means of getting attention. Brings back to mind a case I dealt with as a medical student…girl was seventeen….very rebellious…had been expelled from several of our high schools….poor attitude, drug abuse etc. One night she took suppem like a dozen Valium….then told her mother ’bout it, went on the driveway to puff on a cigarette after…they brought her to Casualty against her will!
Boyfriend at the time was suppem like thirty. I doubt she benefitted from the Psychotherapy at all and am unable to say what happened to her after. Girl left hospital after one night….claiming she was fine, not in need of help and that we never knew what we were doing anyway!
If you think about it, parents are to blame as well as the media. Parents naw spend nuh time with their offspring…they don’t know what they are up to. Movies, MTV and all that give kids the wrong ideas. Lots of the ‘role models’ give bad vibes. I don’t know, maybe I’m too analytical or unable to see through the eyes of people who do this sorta crap as I am not into that. Parenting is no easy task. If the good Lord grants me with the gift of children, I hope He will be kind enough to allow me to raise them in the right way. Any thoughts?
Guess you have all seen the secrets that the Angry Dawg exposed ’bout me. Him betta watch it. Like 9/11….tings may well ketch him by surprise…..wake him outta him kennel from sleeping bliss to rahtid!
Lata.
BTW, anybody know what happen to the Princess? She gone into exile?? Yamfoot?? ![]()
July 27th, 2004 at 1:02 pm Dr. D. I tell you about these children nowadays you see! Crazy like anything! Anyhow, the 32-year old guy that did the thing was even worse. Now, knowing my family, if I do s#it like that, they firstly wouldn’t have the ransom money and secondly would beat my arse red for causing that much problem. Kids nowadays you see! {arf,arf}
July 27th, 2004 at 6:02 pm I saw something like that on the news lastnight, a french girl that left home 4 years ago - the parents led to believe it was a kidnapping, and now the girl has been ‘found’ she is living with a man that is more than twice her age and doesn’t want to go home. There is certainly something wrong when a kid will fake a kidnapping and leave home. Raising kids is a difficult job, but one that needs a lot of time and attention to be done correctly. I would put the blame very much to the parents of the kid - they did not instill the best of values for the kid to come up with the idea that she should fake a kidnapping. Parents do need to take the job more seriously to help alleviate such actions by their young ones.
July 27th, 2004 at 10:36 pm I’m here - been missing for a few days, because I was busy entertaining. Yammie was here - we had a ball as usual - went out and shake we foot (did we really line up for a hour??? ) then it was Sis and the nieces (smallie - 6, and shortie 3) in for the birthday bashment. We did the beach and dinner - shortie admirably handled her fish course, got by without breaking any crystal, but fell asleep for the entree…. Popped up though for desert course - for her ice cream and to clink glasses (she loves that “cheers” thing!) More details when I manage to post. I missed visiting with you - I see that Angry Dawg is another techie - gone again …..
July 27th, 2004 at 10:41 pm Oh - I meant to say something about the kidnapping - In the land of the Hummingbird, they are the King of Kidnapping - they had a few incidents of people doing this…a teenaged girl was busted when she and her friends turned up in new graduation outfits - very expensive - after the family paid a smallish ransom for her return.
July 28th, 2004 at 12:16 am Yep. It really sucks having a teenage daughter. It’s hard. *Really* hard. I can attest…
July 28th, 2004 at 7:31 am Michelle….I am not sure if the gender is really the issue here…adolescence is a difficult period for many teens regardless of whether they are male or female, and their parents. I hope things with your daughter get better soon. Hang in there.